Happy Father's Day!
For all of you who earned that title biologically or otherwise, I am here to demonstrate my respect to you. Thanks to those who took/take the time to teach the generation behind you and give them a helping hand. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 1/3 of our children grow up without a dad. To those of you who decided to be there for your kids - - thank you. They benefited from your perspective, teachings, and actions. You made a difference.
One of the oldest generations around is the one who fought in World War II. They are in their 80's and on occasion I see our local newspaper carry an article about an interview they had with one/several of them about their experience. One of the common themes that seems to run through these articles is the fact that the men couldn't believe that they survived the battles. Most everyone died but them: the guy right beside them, their buddies, brothers, etc. Why didn't they? Many decided there must be a reason and came back to their home towns with the promise they had made to themselves that they would be the best that they could be and contribute to their towns. I have listed at the end of this blog the dialog from the last scene of the movie "Saving Private Ryan" which reflects this generation's sentiments.
If you know someone of this generation, ask them about their feelings about being a dad. What it was like holding their first child after what they had seen or been through. Perhaps those of us following them can see something to learn and use.
Happy Father's Day one and all!
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120815/quotes
I too am very thankful for those who take on the role of fatherhood. Having a blended family myself, I am grateful my spouse has taken that responsibility on with open arms. Not every does, whether they are biological tied to that duty or given the opportunity to do it later.
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